Cleopatra was the last Pharaoh of Egypt and a legendary seductress. Queen Cleopatra was born in 69BC and had two great loves in her life: Julius Caesar and Mark Anthony, both were incredibly powerful Romans. Cleopatra’s life and conquests have earned her the title of greatest temptress that ever lived.
The name “Cleopatra” has become synonymous with exotic beauty and allure, but in fact, of her looks, Plutarch wrote, “her beauty, as we are told, was neither in itself as to strike those who saw her.” Rather, it was the whole package… her wit, her charm, and “sweetness in the tones of her voice” that made her so irresistible.
Seduction is the whole package and the first thing to understand about seduction is that it’s not about seducing a man to have sex. But about a man’s anticipation of sex with the most desirable women he has ever meet, slowly drawing a man in and keeping him wanting more, making the man yearn for you without giving… until you have him hooked.
The whole seduction package is making eye contact, your smile, the clothes you wear, your body language, the small touches, confidence and being spontaneous. So! … Let’s see what we can learn from Cleopatra and bring out the seductress in you.
Does the dress make the women or does the woman make the dress
Cleopatra is recognized as a fashion icon of her time. She is especially known for her make-up style and luxurious jewellery. While many men are attracted to provocative clothing as a whole, you can make more of an impact by dressing to flatter your figure as opposed to dressing just to show skin.
Whether you’re curvy or athletic, wearing clothes that look good on you… no matter how much skin you show or don’t show is a great way to get a guy’s attention. If you have a great rack, play it up by wearing a dress or top that shows some of your cleavage. If your legs are your best feature, wear a short skirt with heels.
Cleopatra’s hair was black, straight and shoulder length, she also had bangs. Sometimes she braided parts of her hair and embellished them with golden jewellery such as beads as this is all she had to work with two thousand years ago, today you can fill a warehouse with all the hair treatment products that are available.
Jewellery was very important for the women of Egypt, especially to Cleopatra. Queens were buried with their jewellery, so it could be used in the afterlife. Both men and women wore collars made of strings of beads, anklets, bracelets, finger rings and armbands. The amount of jewellery was a reflection on the social status of a person. A little bit of expensive looking jewellery can go a long way you to lift you to a higher level in the seduction status ladder.
Jewellery made of gold, silver, and expensive looking stones that are crafted into simple jewellery with clean lines that gets to the point will make a guy think… this one’s going take some capturing… but in reality you are the one that is entrapping him and he does even know it! … J
One of the things that a man is most likely going to notice about you first is your eyes. Many guys look into a woman’s eyes as soon as they meet her, even before they check out her cleavage, or size up the rest of her figure. The eyes can communicate sexiness and desire without a single word. Cleopatra’s eye makeup style enhanced her appearance with a variety of products. She wore golden-flecked bright blue eyeshadow on her top eyelids and green paste on her lower eyelids. She used deep black kohl to make her eyelashes longer, darkened her eyebrows that accentuate her eyes.
With your eyes you can mix up your expressions based on what a man is saying. You can raise an eyebrow to indicate that you don’t believe him in a playful way.
Flash your pearly whites when talking to him, and show him that you enjoy his company and that you are an all-around happy person. Try a sly smile that implies that you know something… he does noes not! Combined with a quiet laugh, this will leave him wondering, what are you thinking about that you’re not telling me? … A little bit of mystery goes a long way.
Body Language… your weapon of seduction
Think of body language as your way of saying with your body what you don’t have the courage to say so out loud. The body language of a seducer always aims to attract attention. Appear mysterious and exotic, promising adventure, look different from the ordinary and create interest.
Like Cleopatra, plan your entrance, when you meet at a restaurant or café, tell him to get a table at the back of a restaurant or table out the front of a café so as to stage your entrance, so he can see you coming, make eye contact, be seated, smile and do that hair thing you do. Now let your body do the talking by using your hair, lips, boobs, facial expressions, play with your hair like you are caressing his body with your hands.
Now he has checked you out from the front, it’s time to go to the bathroom as the time is now for him to check out your ass… imagine doing the bum wiggle dance as you walk away from the table!
The boob point
This one is very simple to do as, he has already checked your boobs out… so it just matter of directing his attention their again… pretended that you need to adjust your bra from both sides at the same time… and then say, sorry this bra does not fit me well.
Be a good listener… to the quite ones
Women are the communicators… and some of the most interesting guys in the world are the quite ones. So you need to open him up… and bring him over to your side. Meaning ask him what he wants to do in his life? And little personal things, like do he have a dog, do sport, the type of music he like, his job and remember to keep it positive.
The power of a simple touch
Touch goes hand in hand with body language. A simple light touch from you… is to a man, a personal suggest of the intimacy of sex… it will put his endorphin levels up…it’s a subtle way of saying I want you. Also when walking together, lean in toward him and do that accidental bump together.
You can start with an accidental touch. This can be a light touch on the hand when exchanging something or sitting closely together. It will serve to break the ice and then there’s the deliberate touch, when someone says something funny, the more often you touch him the more he’ll want to touch you back.
Have Some Deliberate “Accidents”
If you’re sitting at a table next to a guy, let your leg brush his. He’ll wonder, was that an accident?
Drop something and pick it up so that you show off your body. Or drop it so that your hands collide as he also reaches to pick it up.
He will think these little gestures are accidents, but what he does not know is that the Cleopatra in you is seducing him and he has no idea that these are all stages “accidents.”
And while seduction isn’t about sex, it’s a great lead-up to it if you want to have sex with a guy you’re seducing. Remember that anticipation is half the fun, so let that sexual tension really build up so that when you do finally decide to get into bed with this man, it will blow his mind entirely. (And some other parts of his body.)
How to seduce a guy in a public place…Get him alone!
If you’re hanging out with friends, you can make prolonged eye contact with him across a crowded room until he takes notice. Remember, you cannot be seductive if you are not noticed.
You can also time, going to the bar at the same time he does, make a point to get him alone for a few minutes or more, suggest that you are a good pool player (when really you are not!) and challenge him to a one-on-one game of pool. Getting him alone not only gives you more freedom to flirt and seduce him, but will also help get him in the right frame of mind for anything you have planned next without being distracted by his friends.
How to create a big picture from small talk… and the back story
Cleopatra spoke as many as a dozen languages and was educated in mathematics, philosophy, oratory and astronomy, but that is not required, as you just seducing not trying to impress him with academic achievements, just the simple things… that’s all that’s needed. Like how much you like dancing, your dog, your, cat, your favourite colour, and why! Why is your favourite colour, (you need a back story!) as this makes it more interesting and you are perceived to have more depth in your personally.
And think of some interesting and funny stories to tell him, like my dog ate my favourite blouse (and it was also my favourite colour,) create a back story to it… the guy will think… Hmm, this girl is interesting!
Make him work a little, but not too much
Most women know that guys like to chase a woman. However, they don’t want the goal to feel impossible to reach. Many guys respond well when there’s enough space to chase a girl, while still feeling like the end is within reach. I.e. he has a chance with you. Nothing frustrates men more than being toyed with and led in under false pretences. Remember you’re seducing him, not playing games with him.
Show confidence, not insecurities
Most men would agree that aside from a women’s… superficial qualities, personality and confidence is everything. Nothing is more seductive than a woman who carries herself well and exudes sex appeal. This means someone who’s comfortable in her own skin and who knows what she wants. A confident woman knows she’s attractive, funny, and smart.
Everyone is insecure about themselves to some degree; a mobile phone is a classic sign of women’s insecurities. I call the phones… Bling phones for insecure women, as the phone is not used to its full potential (as it is a small computer) it’s just a glorified security blanket, in fact it is a powerful statement from a woman when her meets a new man… is to make a point of turning her phone off… or better still get a friend to call you and then apologies and say and say that you will call them back… and then turn off the phone. “That will impress him”
Because you are now a sexy seductive minx… you will find that you probably attracted some guys that you did not want to attract. So if they ask for your phone number, say that you will call them and send them a text to saying that you did not feel a chemical sensation stirring from within. Then move on as there are plenty of fish in the sea.
So girls play safe and be careful